{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Be}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} Thanks... What would YOU do?? Should I tell him he's no longer welcome in my home?? Or is it worth the price I have to pay to have a means to get around and have someone that can move around freely and do things for me that I can't do??

If this means that we're splitting up, it's gonna be a completely clean break! He won't keep any of his crap here or in MY storage shed! I won't be bailing him out when he tries to move in with our son and Christina verbally abuses him! It will be just like it is with my ex... I'll see him at the grandkid's birthday parties. That's all! Period! The T said if we parted, he'd help us part as friends. Ha! Yeah right! Not this time!