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Old Feb 13, 2006, 08:24 AM
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Hi, Fuzzy!!

I was having very similar feelings lately.

Once I thought it through, I realized that all/most of us here have our own issues/past experiences that might be the glasses we're looking through. Also, instead of imagining that someone doesn't like me, if it matters enough to me, I'll confront (not in the best of ways...trying to work on that one ) and/or isolate (still not a great idea...another one I'm working on.)

Basically, talking with the person who one feels hurt by is always the best way...they may have no idea someone is feeling that way, or there are behind-the-scenes reasons we would never know.

I can say it hurts terribly to think someone doesn't like me...especially those I like immensely.

As for me...I enjoy your posts...you've always been there for me...so want to give you a HUGE Teddy Bear sized ****HUG****
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