My best advice is please, whatever you do, for God's sake don't force it! Nothing is worse than a strained, contrived relationship. Relationships are really hard work, so why bother for a guy who is anything less than your expectations? In other words, don't settle for any guy who asks you out just for the sake of having a boy friend. Not worth it. Some of the best boy friends start out as just friends, so try to get to know guys that way first. If you wouldn't want him as at least a friend, why on earth would you want him as your boy friend? Best of luck, hun! You are pretty young- there is lots of time!