I never said that I don't think you or anyone in your situation should have been born, but I think that for the sake of the planet and society we need to rethink why we feel the need to procreate, this is not 1911 and we are not all farming societies who need large families to run the farm. If all cats and dogs were not spayed/neutered can you imagine how overrun the world would be with unwanted animals(even worse than it already is.) Does this planet really need another unwanted child?