It's surprising how often that happens, isn't it? We don't really understand (or even believe) the other guy's experience until we've walked a mile in their shoes. Sometimes the worst things that happen to us are the things that help us grow the most in compassion and empathy.

I'm sorry you're going through this, Kureha. Take care of yourself and be safe. You're never far from my thoughts. I know a lot of people on this forum have taken you into their hearts and are sending warm and loving thoughts your way.