That is what I am scared of happening to me. I'm sorry you were in the situation because I can understand the stress it causes.

My situation is still confusing, considering he's been constantly texting me all day. I like it, but hate it because it is like, "Does he like me or not. He sure as h*** pays a lot of attention to me. You would think he didn't have any other friends but me."

I almost had the talk with him today on the phone, but I chickened out. He knew I was sad and asked me what was wrong. I made up an excuse. This sucks.

You said that you and the guy loved each other, but weren't in love. I've never been in love before. I want to be with him, but I won't let myself be until we have the talk. But I do adore him so this makes things very hard. Especially since he is becoming someone that I can turn to when I need someone and I don't feel that way with anyone else I know.

This sucks. I have a little bit of hope, but I'm too rational to just believe it will all work out.