Oooh,Sabby I have only just read this.I kept thinking ,if she's in America,she can stay with me,lol.I was so worried.And,I very much relate to the over-all topic,as I have three young men with issues.Two of which utilize S.S.D.One of which does need a caretaker.(ATM,he is not in my grasp,but,nonetheless.)I admire your line of work,and I would love to do the same.Yes,the support within the community of psych central is very strong,and indeed essential as an anchor to a healthier array of insight when we really need it for so many of us.I just kept thinking something has to work out for her,you are intelligent,capable,and have a great disposition,I knew you'd be blessed soon .I didn't think I 'd turn the page and see such a great turn of events ,lol....but,I guess the thinking was right .I hope to hear again that things are going well in your circumstance.Keep us updated?Huggs WO.olf