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Originally Posted by PTSDlovemycats
Got a text from T. Apparently we need to discuss boundaries. She said she is going to make an outline with times and restrictions to when I can and can't text her, etc. So not looking forward to this. I told her that and she said that I need to be able to learn to accept boundaries without using a child's rejection process. What is that supposed to mean???
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it means that you need to grow into healthier emotional/developmental processes for dealing with boundaries that people set......that you need to understand it isn't rejection or feel rejected in the way a child feels rejected when an adult says, no, not now or sets reasonable boundaries on the child's behavior.....
Not sure that's clear, but the best my mind can do this morning!