I understand the thing about new boundaries being hard very well.....my T allowed hugs for a long time (allowed me more than she allowed other clients,even, for whatever reason), and when she took away all physical contact forever, it was devastatingly hard! I was crushed. It has been 2 months since she did that, we have managed to repair the rupture and go on with the new boundaries.....I have managed to tolerate it, the pain of the boundaries has diminished and I am even thankful for them in a way, though I have a session here and there where I think, oh this one was hard, too bad there's no hug. But you do get used to change after a while, even if it is hard.....