There are people who make a pretense to help...but soon appear to have their own agenda...then end up hurting more than helping.

Seems they take your hand just to get a better angle at your back.

Judge others to distract from their own worst fears.

If it is not as they say or experience then it is wrong or a lie.

There are many things in this world that we do not understand that do not fit nicely in a little neatly wrapped box.