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Originally Posted by Perna
Hi, spaceid. Have you ever been "apart" from your mother? It could just be part of normal growing up, when we're looking around for ourselves and who we are/want to be and what we want to do with our lives, other people's lives become less important to us and can seem to be "in the way" of our moving forward. We have to grow into ourselves and that means growing a little apart from our parents.
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I have actually lived in another country away from my mom for two years. But that was about 6 years ago. I've been wanting to have my own place, but without m living with her she cannot pay all of the bills. I'm a student full time and I also work as many days as I can. My older brother also lives with us, but doesn't pay my mother anything. He has had a lot of health issues and can't work full time. I guess I am becoming resentful of my brother being able to live for free, but I give my mother my whole pay check every two weeks. She keeps saying he needs to pay something, but she tells me not him. I don't know what she wants me to do about it.