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Originally Posted by PTSDlovemycats
That is how she started off. So it looks like I am only able to text her during the week now. Not on weekends. She didn't say how many so I guess that is still at my discretion. She is only going to call me on days during the week that she doesn't see me. Not too bad but I still cried. At the end I asked her if I could have a hug. She said no. I started crying immediately. She apologised because she was kidding. Gave me a big hug and told me that she knows that this is going to be hard at first and will feel liike rejection but it is for my best and to make me become less dependent on her. -Sigh-
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I know it's hard for you, but that doesn't sound so bad, really. It's still a lot of contact and a lot of privileges she's letting you have....and you still get hugs! And you're right, the aim is to make you less dependent, which you had to figure was coming sometime, and is important! ((((ptsd))))