Fuzzybear,
I think that we all have to be mindful to the fact that we are all here because we have problems.

It is impossible to please everybody.

From my own point of view, I would never want to upset anybody. I'm not good with confrontation.

And on some days I feel so sad that it is seriously difficult for me to help anyone.

Also,sometimes we can read something in someones post that upsets or triggers us, I tend to stay away from that post for a while until I feel better and can cope with it.

The other thing I would like to say is- Have you seen how many people have read this post! And how many people have replied!
That tells YOU something.

Hugs to you!