Used to always think of suicide as a peaceful and calm death. Watched a "Paranormal States" (think that's the right program) where the host mentioned that most of the unhappy spirits (ghosts) he encounters in his work are suicide victims! That changed my attitude pretty effectively.

BTW, I have two friends who live or have lived in homes with ghosts. I do believe. One is a psychic of sorts. She was living in FL before the 9/11 attacks, very near where those terrible men were training to fly the planes. She felt such a sense of impending doom, she left her job, apt., car, and flew home to the shelter of her parents' ghost-filled home. She said many of her psychic friends had similar sensations of impending doom.

So, it ain't all over, when it's over. Something else to consider. You might not get what you are expecting.