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Old Jun 01, 2011, 10:32 AM
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Originally Posted by Ardmore View Post
Thank you all for the replies but maybe you're all right but I can't, and even if I wanted to it would go badly for me.

I can't, no maybe can't isn't the word for it.

I'm more afraid then I can't but it won't change anything


**** my life
Ardmore,

You have to understand that your brother is ill. What he is doing to you is only an example of what he will do to a wife or someone else.

You have to protect yourself. I know that you feel that he will hurt you even more if you do act. But, he will get worse he is in training for some kind disease and these people get worse.

Look I know that your afraid but you have to protect yourself. Are you old enough to drive? Maybe call a hot line and get advice and see what can be done. Not only for you but everyone that gets in his path. Everything he is doing with you, he is learning how to control a victim.
Often this happens and people don't talk, they are afraid just like you.
But then someone really gets hurt and its not fair to you or anyone in the future. His actions are not healthy.

You have to stand up for yourself and find resources that will help you.
Yes, your afraid and thats what he wants. But you have to learn to stand up for yourself, otherwise you will allow yourself to become a victim again.

I had given you suggestion on how to keep yourself away from him. But you do need help, he also needs help. It doesn't always end up with a prison sentence, but it will someday for him. He wont know how to stop and he will hurt someone. He will be tested and examined by professionals. A person who is violent like this has psychological issues and they have to be stopped.

Open Eyes
Thanks for this!
Ardmore