I was also thinking this AM why I didn't do this with my husband? Why is he different then everyone else? Does he live up and beyond my standards? There are a few things that he does that I don't like but I don't hold these things against him. Why?

Does my husband meet some need of mine that gives him the green light?

I am very accepting of other people AT A DISTANCE I guess. I actually like it when people are different. This has something to do with self protection.

Maybe my anger is at the situation and it is being projected onto others? Or maybe I'm angry at myself? Or my parents?