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Originally Posted by Sannah
Yes, projection, I was told once by a coworker who also had a Masters in Psychology who had Freudian training that I had the biggest superego that she ever saw. Talk about standards! Lots to think about. PC is so awesome for working through things! Thank you pgirl!
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You're welcome!
I understand about superegos.....T tells me I have extremely high standards for myself and judge myself very harsh and have little compassion for myself when I fail the impossibly high standard I set....like having myself in a catch 22, setting myself up to fail. and then being angry and ashamed about the failure and judging myself harder than ever for the failure.....she has talked to me about lowering my expectations, lowering my standards, to a more reasonable, achievable level....and about the need to have more compassion on myself for not always being able to meet my standards.....