which means that when something falls outside the "norms" of what the term "safe" has grown to mean here it will be afforded the same protection and respect as the threads that fall into the widely accepted "norms" of "safe" (re: this forum only)

thanks for understanding and validating that there are those that exist lurking mostly due to lack of feeling "safe" here........expressed in above post.

forcing square pegs into round holes just hurts everyone.....but also insisting that this forum be the safe place of the boards can be scary to some who used to use this forum previously as a mainstay of their support.....fortunately we've seen a couple in other places but we miss their participation here.

thanks for continuing to allow dialogue about different viewpoints on this very hot button topic.