Well, I simply meant as safe as possible for an online forum.

It should be a place to share without the fear of judgment by others...judgment being the key word for me in my post. Is that 100% realistic? No. However, I would hope it were 80-90% realistic.

Call me the eternal optomist. I feel it is special and will continue to be such.

I think this forum is 10 different things to all of it's members as we all don't have the same needs. I see it every day. I feel that's a good thing.

The bottom line for me is about support, and I've found so much.

KD