There are men that are very attracted to women that are unobtainable. They are intrigued by the hunt and they can send mixed messages. They can even be married and be willing to disregard the marriage for this quest.

Now, you on the other hand, have a lot at stake here. Would you really want to risk it? Would you want to carry guilt? Because if it did happen, he may just move to someone else. There is a difference between love and just sex. Especailly for men.
Women call it making love, men often don't think of it that way. Not their fault, they are often designed to think like that, natures trick for reproduction.

This is part of your confusion, you don't think like a man. There are two marriages at stake here. And many have been shattered by people giving in, and you know what? Even if they get together, it happens again.

Now, you do have a husband and he is being faithful and you do have children. You took an oath, remember? And, you took another oath with each child. That road your talking about, if you did it, all of what you have now will change, everything.
Even if you did it and hid it, it wont matter, it will still change what you have now.
Those few moments of maybe pleasure, maybe not so hot, will leave you with guilt and that will eat you up.

It happened to me, only I was cheated on. It changed everything for me and my husband. It broke a promise, it changed him, me and our child. I did forgive him, I never forgot those two women, oh yes, do you think your the only one he stares at?
For what sexual desire, passion, might be disappointing, wont be what is in your fantacies. Nothing ever is. Both those women knew we were a happy family, they broke us, ALL OF US. Do you think that is fair? Do you want to think about that for the rest of you life?

The next time you hold that baby, look into those trusting eyes. Do you really want to harm that child? It will you know. And I have to tell you, IT WONT BE WORTH IT.

I have had men look at me like that. I met one man that hit every cord in me and I walked away. I am glad I did that, I kept my promise, I have no guilt and I can look into my childs eyes and she knows that I was a good mother and she could count on me. Very important!

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

Open Eyes