I searched the first three pages of the forum for a similar thread so if this is too similar to a past thread, I'm sorry.
I just thought it might be useful to have a sort of "long distance support" thread. I find I'm having trouble lately feeling emotions for my partner. We do get to see each other every other week or so, so it's not as bad as it could be. But even though I know I still love her, I often find I can't feel it when she's not around.
Not to mention, I'm getting tired of talking on the phone every night. Not because I don't want to talk to HER. I think I just don't like talking on the phone unless it's to plan something or get information. The phone for me is not a casual conversation tool, especially since she and I are more the type of people to sit around and enjoy each other's company than talk and talk for hours on end.
Anyway, I just thought it might be a nice idea to have a place to let out LD concerns and issues where others can kind of, pass on advice, pat shoulders, etc. I guess it's not as serious a relationship issue as abuse or separation, but it can be frustrating, especially is you have separation anxiety or other disorder that makes it hard to cope with the time apart.
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