I agree with jadedmoonbeam... I think you must also not be spending enough time with your husband... it's pretty bad if there is an attraction to your ex-boss. He's staring at you to get your attention, and gave you all those things in order to win your favor. This man is just trying to win yyou as someone he can manipulate. You have a family and you must love them, but if you continue to want this man your entire relationship, family, and finance could potentially fall apart. Don't let this man stab a knife into the things you believe in and already have, it will cause your way of life to collapse.