Oh? I have been on this boat 40 +years and I accept that since this is my primary coping mechanism it will come up again and again. There have been periods of peace and tranquility where everyone worked together. And in times of extreme stress it is the loss of time, the infighting, and new stuff surfaces and we paste it all back together! Unless you are a dual it is rare to always stay what the the "normals" call cured...The pain doesnt go away you learn to manage it. So we will be DID in this world and maybe into the next.