
Jun 02, 2011, 11:13 AM
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Member Since: Jun 2007
Location: Chicago, Illinois
Posts: 5,518
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((radio flyer)) I'm happy for you and AJ. He did something you couldn't do for him, and he achieved something you couldn't give him. It's hard for a guy to feel like a man, much less his own man, when he's still under the roof of his mother. Now with a job and life of his own, he can be his own man - even if he's still under your roof.
His gf sounds like a sweetheart. I believe you when you say your husband is a good man, but he appears a bit shallow. I hope AJ does not follow in your husband's footsteps. Hopefully your influence will make a difference AJ's life and relationship with women.
I think it's funny your ex commented on the one-year age difference too. One year wouldn't make a difference. Even if it did, aging looks is no excuse for breaking vows. My elderly neighbors have been married for over 40 years - she's nine years older than her husband. She likes to brag she landed a "young stud," and he truly adores his "old lady."
I hope AJ's feeling better soon.
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