Interesting how to answer this question you started talking about your mom. Did you deflect this question away from yourself? When you brought the question back to yourself you skip your whole childhood and start with being married.

Your mom had mental health issues and 5 children. Any chance your needs were ignored in your family?

My physical needs were met adequately by my mom. I had clean clothes and food. I was still neglected, however. Never once did I get the message from my mom that I was important in any way.