I don't know that I would call it addicted as much as attracted. I have been attracted to another woman for the last 4 years. We both know it and it is mutual. The situation is.....we are both married. We know that there are boundries that we cannot cross and we avoid each other. I am now in a state far from her but we still communicate. It is hardly ever sexual, sometimes a little spicey, but no photo are exchanged, no pining for each other, just trying to maintain a connection. Neither of us have any intention of it going any farther. Attraction is normal. It's what you do after that attraction that makes a difference.