Protoform, you use the example of a woman saying she was raped. But if a woman went to a therapist and said " I was raped" do you expect the T to just sit and say nothing - how would that help her? You are implying that by asking questions your T is not believing you?

What was it about his questions that made you feel like you weren't believed?

I cannot help but wonder if therapy is right for you because a few months ago you were extremely angry that your female therapist didn't warn you that you 'may' develop strong feelings for her and because she didn't feel the same way, you believed she was intentionally hurting you. Now you want to sue the T who asks you questions about your experience of being bullied? If you don't want a therapist to take part then why go to someone to talk about it?

I'm sorry if I sound cold but, as before, you basically fight people's rational thinking of the subject in an argmentative way and your arguments back often are not rational but angry statements.

I don't think therapy will help you until you can accept that other people have opinions that don't match yours and that sometimes you are wrong.

I think anger management may be helpful for you before getting involved in therapy.