You know, Jen, there may be a support group near you that can help...When I go to support groups at my NAMI chapter there is often someone who has accompanied their loved one with a diagnosis for just this reason. I've seen the look on these folks' faces and heard the questions they ask as they begin to realize that this stuff isn't imaginary, and that they have not been there for the one they care about. It's very powerful.
So, you might call your local NAMI (
www.nami.org) or DBSA (
http://www.dbsalliance.org/) and see what they have to offer. Good luck...this stuff isn't fun alone, and it's even worse with someone who is harrassing you about it.
DJ