Oh wow. I am super triggered by feeling like I'm being "checked out" so that would have bothered me.

My T has never said anything about how I look. He may have said "pretty" once in a long list of words that were supposed to replace a long list of old words I have about myself in my head. But that's it.

I have long hair, and once during my therapy, I got a lot cut off...like up to my shoulders. T didn't say ANYTHING, but it was SO obvious.

He did comment on my shoes once when I wore something besides Birkenstocks

If you brought up your appearance first, then I could see him commenting on in, but even then, only in a curious way...like "what would you like to change about your appearance?".