I started not to reply, but I know she does care and love the baby and at least she asked. I wrote back and said we were fine, not to worry. What she had done was disappointing and I don`t trust anyone anymore. I said I had noticed she had become friends with everybody and seem to know things she wouldn`t have known unless she listened to them and since she had denied talking to them, that was dishonest. I told her the only way to have a civil relationship with them is either join in the fight or stay out of their way. I gave her a site to read, it descibes what was done to me all my life and I have had enough. I said I was sorry and bye. I got a reply from her husbamd who told me that I had pushed her out of our lives and wrecked hers. She was crying her eyes out and if that was my intention, the mission was accomplished. I wrote back and told him my whole world had been wrecked and you know how that happened. It`s okay for my world to get destroyed but it`s wrong for me to take cover to keep from getting killed. (cont`d)