My T has made a few comments to me about things and I never feel comfortable when she does. I think she thinks shes helping when she has done it.
She did say how she thinks I hide myself with what I wear, as at times i didnt take off my coat and I usually always were some form of jacket. She was saying how I use it as a barrier. She has talked a lot about diet and exercise since I am over weight and have had eating disorders too. When I tell her I am uncomfortable about it she says shes not talking about my weight but about being healthy etc but it always got on my nerves. She is very slim small and extremely pretty so to talk about such stuff when I am really overweight right now is horrible and it does make me self conscious.
I can't remember exact comments, she doesnt say "oh your fat" or anything like that but its more than I feel self conscious and even the comment she made about hiding by wearing jackets etc made me think "omg she's taking note of what i am wearing".

It seems really wrong for a therapist to suggest to a client that they watch a show geared at making women into models. was there a reason for watching this particular type of show? Was it for you to see the self confidence of the women or something?

*huge hugs*