I have come to the conclusion that women who demand marriage too soon are usually controlling types (narcissistic/histrionic) who will never be happy unless the people in their lives capitulate to their demands. They are disordered. The marriage aspect is but one example of how they will bully and manipulate those around them. They cannot fathom that their desires could be questioned and they really don't care about the needs or feelings of those around them. Any questioning of them is seen as a threat to their very being. How dare you!?!?!? When you fail to give them what they want, when they want it, they will drop you like a hot potato. They will devalue and discard. Consider yourself lucky when this happens, but it can shake your very foundation and your belief system of what love is. You loved them, but they never loved you. At least not in a mature sense. You were but a means to an end. A cog in their machine. I wonder how many "bridezilla" marriages have ended in divorce?