(((Lexi232)))

I am glad to hear that you aren't living together. phew...

I'd still recommend that you have a personal, private conversation with your mom about the man that she is seeing. Just because she has seen some inappropriate looks or words he's chosen with you, that does not mean that she has processed them in the same way.

It is very possible that your mother has chosen to disregard what she has witnessed, or written his words off as "He really cares about my daughter, he's so protective! What a wonderful man!"

I wish you the best. It isn't easy to see people that we care about make mistakes that we can see from a mile away. You're in a perfect position to share your perspective on your mom's relationship...before it becomes any worse for her (or you and others).