t has never commented on anything like that. one time he did ask how much weight i had lost, more out of concern; i think
i usually wear sweats (grey) and a big-big t-shirt when i go to t. no make up, no glasses... just tennis shoes and sweats! i think to hide???

i don't know what i would do if t commented on my appearance. i do not think i would like it at all

sending safe hugs