He says I don't participate enough in his career decisions... I've often advised to my best ability... but he often disregards what I've even said....if his idea back fires on him then he once again says I don't participate enough and that I NEED to be there for him...... argh!!!
I do advise but then he ignores it if it doesn't agree with his view, yet he wants me to keep advising....... ??........

this was our conversation, as I'm saying "I would participate, but in the past I've not been acknowledged"-- he says--"what is it with you women?"..... well-- that got me right off the chair and out the door.... he so KNOWS I HATE gender generalizations, especially if it is a negative generalization..... Why would someone give such a low blow??
I so don't understand what happened.... argh......

I'm close to loosing my grip.....

fins