My mom had surgery yesterday and is home and doing good!

Haven't talked to or texted my husband since sitting in the waiting room when I aksed him what seemed like an innocent question by text and he seemed annoyed and just answered "idk y", then when I explained politely that I was reading an article, he just said "idk".

I figured if that upset him, then I was just going to ignore him if at all possible and leave him alone.... I am getting so tired of having to double and triple think everything I type or say to him, trying not to make him mad at me. I don't know why I trigger him to be angry or stressed, but I am tired of trying desperately not to and still end up doing it!

I still hope that we can work things out, but I can't keep putting so much effort into not upsetting him, when he seems to be working against me at every turn I make...

I still am just praying he goes to therapy appointment next week and keeps going!