10 times in a week.........I would shoot myself. You are being extremely hard on yourself. On the other hand....if you don't have the spark - you don't have it. Has there ever been a time where you just couldn't take your hands off him?

My bf is a little overweight and is - for lack of a better word - hairy lol. He's got the little patches on his shoulders and such. But I still feel sexually attracted to him. It's not all about physical appearance. I have been extremely physically attracted to men that probably weren't considered "hot" to a lot of girls. Just like I have been turned off by men who others would consider hot, but I didn't like something about them.

Sounds like you don't have a connection there. I'd re-evaluate the relationship, if I were you.