Thanks for your replys, Yes I do beleve you people when you say think of others and look around at other parts of the world. That is why I volunteer which makes you feel good about yourself. As green leaves said about having a family friends well different for me. My family has changed so much they don't know me anymore. I have one good friend and she does change just like that. When I go to the gym people are great there nice people and it's nice to get in with other people. Same when I volunteer you feel great about yourself. You are right when you say leave things behind and go forward yes I beleve that. Thanks for your replys take care Lime....