Seems this forum is SO BIG, and scary, but would like to reach out to others and continue to learn ourselves, and offer what support we can. Need to understand more about stuff, inside out & outside in stuff, parts of us have a strong medical background, have been working in healthcare many years, hiding all, watching, keep you friends close but keep your enemies closer, not real enemies just scarier than most, can cause big hurt at times to remember, so you have to be very careful here and outside, but I am glad to try. I am very much a nurturer, learning there are good people, just have to stay away from the BMO’s (Big Mean Ones) smile…different parts different skills, please be patient and thank you. I really can be very confluent at times, other times not so much, but let that be our little secret.