(((swimjim))) - honestly you really deserve better. When a woman withholds sex as a means of punishment and manipulation -this is one of the lowest blows in a relationship. You would end up constantly being at her mercy whenever a problem comes up. You may feel like you're at a loss now, but you would lose more of your self esteem as a man if you stayed with such a game playing woman. Look for an honest and sincere woman who's not into these kind of antics.