My boyfriend and I have been dating for two and a half years. We've been living together for the majority of the time. I really appreciate what he has brought into my life. He's a very good soul and I am extremely lucky to feel like I'm in a stable relationship where I am appreciated and cared for, and (I think at least) that we both trust each other completely. I love taking care of him and providing him with all the respect he deserves.
My issue is that I am 22 years old, and I feel like I have no sex drive. But now I'm beginning to wonder if I have no sex drive for him. I can safely say that we have had sex, perhaps about 10 times in the past year. About two or three months we did spend apart, but don't people have sex 10 times in a week, sometimes? When I first met him, it wasn't much of an issue, but then again, new things are always exciting. I'm not sexually attracted to him. I think he's "cute". Really, he is a handsome guy and I shouldn't complain. His body is a bit sloppy and I tend to pay attention to physical fitness more than he, but I feel like most girls are pre-occupied with their looks much more than men are.
I don't want to let a relationship go that is so good just because I don't think he's hot. On the other end, I have to wonder how on earth he's stayed with me for such a long time when time after time I just "don't feel like it". I want to be hot for him! He deserves it. What is going on with me, and what should I do?