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Originally Posted by SoupDragon
Thank-you jadedmoonbeam - I shall try the vicks thing that sounds like a good idea - although the smell isn't on my clothes, only in my head. I think a strong different smell may give my head something else to think about.
Thank-you too for your reassurance that I wasn't over-reacting - its' hard when I find everything in life scarey sometimes to try to work out what is scarey and what is just my mind inventing stuff.
Yes it is worrying that he works as a therapist and doing hyponosis and trance work!
I do have a T who I see every Tuesday - I trust him completely and do feel very safe with him, although I am not very good at talking openly.
I am good at putting my rational head and mask on and getting on with life - but inside I feel really terrible today - it has been a shock to me as I thought I was improving - I have decided to come off the dating sites, I think I would find it too frightening to meet someone else.
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I almost wonder if he was lying about being a therapist
becaue he doesn't sound like he could be in that profession.
I had men lie to me about so many different things, their age, their NAME, what they did for a living. You'd like to think there are honest people in the world, but there is a reason I call myself JADEDmoonbeam.
If you're worried about talking to T, can you print out that piece of this thread, where you tell the story what happened, and just give it to him so he knows what happened? I think it's important for him to know and might be easier for you to discuss that way.
Take a break from the dating sites....i don't blame you at all for being frightened. That was a sh--ty first date experience
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I know the smell is in your mind, but Carmex and Vicks are Strong Smells - it helps you forget whatever smell is in your head.
I am sending you tons of positive energy and good thoughts SoupDragon!