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Originally Posted by Can't Stop Crying
I think you need to clearly outline some boundaries and let him know that you enjoy his friendship, but are not looking for a boyfriend ATM. Give him a chance to respond and if he can't respect your boundaries, I think you need to take care of you and limit your contact with him. Friendships are amazing when both people are on the same page, when one views the friendship different than the other, it definitely leads to the confusion you are feeling. Good job at seeking out new friends! No matter how this one turns out, don't let it deter you - there are decent people out there!
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I agree with Can't Stop Crying; however, I'm not completely convinced that you are not considering him as a possible boyfriend. It sounds like you might have feelings, but something is holding you back...you say "certain aspects about my life and his personality that make all possibility quite.. Well not impossible but it's just not something I'm working for at the moment."