Yeah, that very well may be true.. I do know he has his own issues.. and he's struggling just to keep sanity i think.. (he brought on those issues himself, but it still is issues).

And I know what you mean about the proof thing. When I was in my home I tried so hard to tell people, and no one listened. they only listened to the female care giver, who was the abuser in this situation. (this was when i was still a minor) and cps belived her blindly.. stating i was just a rebelous teen.. i didn't have enough words to describe it other than to say she was mean, and to act it out, and draw it out.. but... they always believed her. then later on when i was trying to get out of that house, I started gathering recordings on my mp3 player, and writing everything she said and did down, word for word. and then they saw first hand a few times.. mostly when they weren't believing her, they saw what she was really like.

But sometimes if we can't get any proof.. we ourselves.. are the only living proof.. :\
((((((black sheep))))))

The phone company said they can send me paper on offical letterhead paper for money, or i can go online and print it out. I'm prolly going to do the print out. I was looking over the phone record, and he'd sent me 432 txts in the past 2 months, and i've only sent 10 back. he's called in the past 2 months over 500 times. and at first i answered a lot, but then after that they've all been missed calls for except like 6 calls since then. And i've called him a total of 4 times in the past 2 months.) If i want copies of what the texts said i'll have to pay.. not sure if i'm gonna do that yet or not.. but my phone has a recorder on it, and i can record whats being said.. i'm thinking about answering the next time he calls and recording it.. that way i can play it back if i need it for proof.