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I second everyone's advice, which seems to be pretty good. If it's your turn to be down, so be it.
I just wanted to tell you after reading through this thread that someone quoted something you had told them earlier......."you are very precious to your T...after watching my T and seeing his eyes and the words he isn't allowed to say because of the way they teach Ts to stay emotionally distant, well I know for a fact that Ts really care far more deeply for clients than they can ever let that client know."

Two comments about that. First, I personally really really needed to read that tonight. You have no idea how much that sentence has helped me. My last appt. with my current T is on Tuesday and thank you for that.

Second, try to remember how you felt when you were thinking that/feeling that. It's okay to be mad, angry, hurt, whatever at your T. But when you are more rational, less emotional..........remember that he does care. And definitely bring it up. I have found that a rupture, if handled well, can bond a T and client closer than they were before. Thinking of you tomorrow.