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Old Jun 06, 2011, 07:48 AM
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Originally Posted by rainbow8 View Post
I think it's an idea that my T would like me to use too, but I find it hard to email her and not send it. It's like I can't help but hit the "send" button without even proofing what I've written because I want my T to know what my feelings are, especially right after a session. I tried emailing and not sending once and it was very hard.

I may go back to journaling more because then there is no way to hit the "send" button!
What works for me is pen and paper. I much rather write me thoughts out by hand than on the computer. I have a separate 'regular' journal as well. Writing letters to my therapist frees up a lot of space in my mind.

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Originally Posted by swimmergirl View Post
I'm glad this is helping you. It is something I have done for awhile too and as I may get an insight or something I want to share, but maybe won't be seeing T for awhile, it helps me keep track of everything. There is also something extremely therapeutic for me to write it down and see it in print. It's like I'm having a conversation with myself and I can change it to fit exactly what I was thinking.
I feel like it's a one-sided conversation with her. I have this need to talk to her between sessions and this keeps me from 'annoying' her and stressing over email. (I put 'annoy' in quotes 'cause I'm the one who's annoyed by it.) My other journal is more like what you describe as 'a conversation with myself'.
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