i work for a 30 year old who picks on me constantly about working slowly. i work slowly for two reasons. one is the pain and the other is to do the work perfectly. she prefers to ***** about the pain and has never complimented me upon one piece of work that i've done there. i have return customers who make allowances for my pain and always insist that they are in no hurry for the work and to "just call when it's ready". she really resents that. i really resent her. she has the social skills of a fly.

i don't think that my family even begins to realize how much pain i'm in...all lthe time. one sister might grasp it somewhat. my doc, who is really a PA, understands and gives me whatever i ask for. but i worked with a doctor in ER who was a complete *** when it came to people being in pain. i hated him! i refused to go in rooms and assist him because i would get so mad over his attitude towards the patients. he skies and secretly i hope he finds himself --- over head someday.......

my ex understood the pain and was solicitious towards me concerning it. he even bought me a goose down bra to wear to keep warm when i fed the cows or hunted with him. it helped a lot. picture it! a pink goose down bra!!!!

i sympathize with anyone who is in pain. i'd crawl over broken beer bottles to help them. xoxoxo pat