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Old Jun 06, 2011, 01:46 PM
kitten16 kitten16 is offline
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I think something is really wrong with a male therapist who brings up your physical self image on his own - not in response to something you've said. That's fishy. And the advice to watch a model/makeover show? OMG, that is completely whack.

I would call him on it. Tell him you thought it was strange, and you'd like to know why he brought up the subject at all. You could do it playfully - kid him about, "Wow, I didn't know there was a dress code in here," or "I'm sad, I thought you loved me for my beautiful soul," or something. But don't let it slide.

And - be on the lookout for a pattern. Therapists slip up, and one mistake doesn't mean he's completely off. But he could be. His response to your probing around this will be revealing. Don't let it go!!
Thanks for this!
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