I never post when I'm feeling GOOD so I thought I would today...talked to my soon to be ex this morning about him giving me some money to pay our bills for this month since he has given me no money all month and I am no longer even living there AND HE GOT ALL ANGRY...said all I cared about was money, that he knew I had a "secret bank account" and didn't need his money...I hung up the phone and laughed...it's terrible but I couldn't help it...yeah of course I opened a new account, that's what my lawyer told me to do...but theres literally like 10 dollars in it!!! BIG SECRET ACOOUNT...someone call the SEC...I'm cooking the books!! He he...my finances are going straight to hell but I realized that he has been making me guilty about so many things for so long and I bought into it and now I realize how ridiculous some of it was...I mean really how does my wanting him to give me half the money for the bills for a house that he is living in, with a roomate no less, and when I was only there half of the month...how does that make me a money hungry B@T#H...it's crazy...totally crazy...AND I AM SO HAPPY THAT SOON I WILL NO LONGER HAVE TO BE CONCERNED WITH IT...He thinks he's somehow entitled to be taken care of...I don't know... his perception of realtiy will just never match mine....he he...THANK GOD!!