hi
i new in this group. i badly need to lift myself up. i being married for the past 20 years. life has been one big rollercoaster for me. i have good nice husband that all. other than that he is foreverr wants to do something, doing a risky bussiness, put me and the children in financially depleted stage. he do not call, he go out of the house will not come back.come back when he feel the need. he make a lot of promise but never keep it. he always told me to be patience but i been patience for the past 20 years. i take care of the house, i been struggle financially. i have talk to him, angry at him, scold him, encourage him, support him emotionally. i just at my wit end, i am angry, sad, dissapointed and very mad. he has not back home for the past 3 weeks. i want to take charge of my life but i do not know where to start and how to help my husband to an active spouse and not an absent father. thanks to any one who answer this posting.